PAST RELATIONSHIPS: 15+ QUESTIONS TO ASK BEFORE GETTING TOO SERIOUS

Let’s discuss past relationships… Besides finances, a discussion on past relationships is probably the last thing anyone wants to talk about with their new boo. However, open and transparent conversations about past relationships offer significant insight into the person you are dating and may uncover red flags for you to be aware of. In this…

15+ FINANCIAL QUESTIONS TO ASK BEFORE MARRIAGE

What is it about budding relationships…you want to know EVERYTHING about your new boo, but there is always such apprehension about asking certain questions.   You let a few months go by, asking only the superficial questions for fear that he’ll accuse you of prying or being nosy if you ask more probing questions. When…

Should you ever loan a friend money?

SHOULD YOU EVER LOAN A FRIEND MONEY?

  Dear L.C., Under what circumstances (if any) is it ok to loan a friend a significant sum of money?     That is such a tough question. And all though my knee-jerk response may be NONE & NEVER!! The truth of the matter is, a question like this deserves serious consideration. Things to consider:…

when I'm sorry just isn't enough

WHEN “I’M SORRY” JUST ISN’T ENOUGH

  Have you ever hurt someone so profoundly that you knew deep in your soul that “I’M SORRY” just wasn’t going to repair the damage? I have. I could hear the words coming out of my mouth and as each syllable escaped I felt how hollow and how empty they were. Yes, I sincerely meant…